You're emotional about this. I think all of us understand that and can give you some grace because of it. But this thread isn't going to be productive for you. I think we should all let this thread go.
dermdoc said:Illustrious Potentate said:
I think both quotes above deserve being posted again.
Agree. I just think saying the dead girls families are out for money or vengeance is way out of line on an Ag forum. I would have apologized but then I am an old Ag and different I guess.
Read schmelba's posts and picture yourself as someone who lost a little girl. He not only claimed we were after money he also told me how I should respond. And don't be emotional. Does he completely lack self awareness and does not understand how arrogant and condescending that sounds? Who is he to tell me or the victims how to respond? And this is Musrer of all days. Ags should be better.
Benny the Jet Rodriguez said:
You're emotional about this. I think all of us understand that and can give you some grace because of it. But this thread isn't going to be productive for you. I think we should all let this thread go.
BrazosDog02 said:dermdoc said:Illustrious Potentate said:
I think both quotes above deserve being posted again.
Agree. I just think saying the dead girls families are out for money or vengeance is way out of line on an Ag forum. I would have apologized but then I am an old Ag and different I guess.
Read schmelba's posts and picture yourself as someone who lost a little girl. He not only claimed we were after money he also told me how I should respond. And don't be emotional. Does he completely lack self awareness and does not understand how arrogant and condescending that sounds? Who is he to tell me or the victims how to respond? And this is Musrer of all days. Ags should be better.
This is a message board. If that is his opinion, so be it. Call him an a-hole one time and move the heck on.
This particular board is filled with folks from young to old with varying levels of experience and certainly varying opinions and definitely various levels of give a damn. There are TWO threads where people have bitten their tongue and tiptoed around for the sake of being respectful and sensitive...for almost a year.
There are more folks than just you trying to make sense of this and whether you like it or not, lots of folks do support Camp Mystic (right or wrong) and are looking at this from a perspective different than yours.
These families filed lawsuits. Gloves are off. We can speak freely now.
This is a fantastic case for people to be able to read, learn, understand, and discuss opinions, back and forth, and not be blasted, shamed, and dogpiled because it doesn't align with your opinion.
BrazosDog02 said:
I read it. It's not something i would have said, but I also have no idea what the families 'intentions' are on lawsuits, and I don't particularly care as I have no problem whatsoever even if that IS what they want to do. It is the next logical step in this entire process and I see no issue whatever with it.
I will totally admit my own hypocrisy that even if I eventually sided with Camp Mystic, if it was my kid that died, I would sue the pants off of everyone and anyone I possibly could, alongside other parents. There is no amount of money that can bring a child back, but we can sure as hell make the damages so extreme that no one ever forgets it. What they do with that money, is not my business or my concern and it will carry no judgment at all.
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And we have people worrying about the effect of the sale of Mystic will be on them? And their property?
Teslag said:
Love you man, and I think you're one of my absolute favorite posters on this board.
Your issue with someone claiming the victims' families are chasing dollars is warranted.Quote:
And we have people worrying about the effect of the sale of Mystic will be on them? And their property?
However, the above is valid in the context of the thread topic, which is the legal ramifications of the lawsuit and subsequent court actions/remedies. You did state you started this thread to be about the court case, and not to be an extension of the primary thread which rightfully is about the victims, their memory, grief, etc.
I find myself mostly on your side in this issue regarding the fault of the Eastlands. And I remember I was one of the first to raise alarms last july in the aftermath and was called out by many about how the Eastlands would never put those girls in danger. But for me, the facts just didn't sit right at the time. That camp should never have been built there. Ever. All actions after that were mundane and trivial. I though then, and still do, that it was a ticking bomb from the moment it was built.
But I also get the arguments of the other side, and the need to discuss this without using the emotional arguments to quell discussion. For me it's a lot like the Sandy Hook shooting. The parents in that case used their emotional arguments to push for and enact draconian gun laws. Some extremely far reaching and anyone that disagreed was beaten with accusations of not caring for the kids killed, or at worst being just as guilty for their deaths. Emotion can be very dangerous when framing any kind of regulatory and/or legal remedies and especially engineered solutions.
dermdoc said:chase128 said:
Doc, is your main concern with the Eastlands that they didn't have proper protocols in place to keep the campers safe?
I see people on this thread getting caught up on the camp being built in a flood plain.
And we have posters on here who appear to be worried about what happens to the land than 27 deaths. I don't get it.
John Cocktolstoy said:
And who knew a sociopath could practice medicine for over 40 years and teach at the med school and get away with it?
Scary!
I get you Bud. I'm giving you some heavy leeway, we all should. But like I told you, everyone is going to have opinions and you have to expect it.
Your still a good egg!
DannyDuberstein said:
With how the ownership is set up - camp vs land, I'm not sure that the land will be touchable/sold. Lots of family drama in the past (legal and otherwise) leading to it being pretty divided up
https://www.texasmonthly.com/being-texan/the-not-so-happy-campers/
Alta said:
The end result of the lawsuits is there will be no more camps along the Guadalupe River. Might not happen tomorrow or in 5 years but camping in that area is not going to be available to our grandkids. I know others disagree but I find that unfortunate.
Alta said:
The end result of the lawsuits is there will be no more camps along the Guadalupe River. Might not happen tomorrow or in 5 years but camping in that area is not going to be available to our grandkids. I know others disagree but I find that unfortunate.
BrazosDog02 said:Alta said:
The end result of the lawsuits is there will be no more camps along the Guadalupe River. Might not happen tomorrow or in 5 years but camping in that area is not going to be available to our grandkids. I know others disagree but I find that unfortunate.
Yeah, but so far, there is no issue with having cabins in the flood plain moving forward.
You just can't have people sleeping in them overnight. You will need redundant internet. You will need weather radios (this is not ideal, by the way). You will need evacuation plans, and other stuff that is pretty reasonable.
I would argue that a lot of camps already do this stuff and it's all reasonable.
But seriously, these parents are dumping 7,000 bucks + for these camps. Build new cabins, get top grade tech, market it as safety features, charge the parents more for tuition, cover costs, maintain profit margins...easy peasy.
One thing that bugs me with all of this is that I have watched a lot of testimony, and no where have I seen a single text or email from a single damn parent to camp mystic regarding the impending weather that night. Where in the hell is all of that? Did Mom and Dad Steward send some notes to them? How about any other parents? Surely they were checking on the safeyt of their own kids, yes? There should be like 600 emails or texts or phone calls. Where are those? Hmmmm....This would be good to see and would further bolster the argument that Mystic was warned.
Alta said:
The end result of the lawsuits is there will be no more camps along the Guadalupe River. Might not happen tomorrow or in 5 years but camping in that area is not going to be available to our grandkids. I know others disagree but I find that unfortunate.
those messages didn't exist because no one knew the severity of this. Flooding happens all the time in the Hill Country. This was not that…(I recognize you understand this)BrazosDog02 said:Alta said:
The end result of the lawsuits is there will be no more camps along the Guadalupe River. Might not happen tomorrow or in 5 years but camping in that area is not going to be available to our grandkids. I know others disagree but I find that unfortunate.
Yeah, but so far, there is no issue with having cabins in the flood plain moving forward.
You just can't have people sleeping in them overnight. You will need redundant internet. You will need weather radios (this is not ideal, by the way). You will need evacuation plans, and other stuff that is pretty reasonable.
I would argue that a lot of camps already do this stuff and it's all reasonable.
But seriously, these parents are dumping 7,000 bucks + for these camps. Build new cabins, get top grade tech, market it as safety features, charge the parents more for tuition, cover costs, maintain profit margins...easy peasy.
One thing that bugs me with all of this is that I have watched a lot of testimony, and no where have I seen a single text or email from a single damn parent to camp mystic regarding the impending weather that night. Where in the hell is all of that? Did Mom and Dad Steward send some notes to them? How about any other parents? Surely they were checking on the safeyt of their own kids, yes? There should be like 600 emails or texts or phone calls. Where are those? Hmmmm....This would be good to see and would further bolster the argument that Mystic was warned.
dermdoc said:Alta said:
The end result of the lawsuits is there will be no more camps along the Guadalupe River. Might not happen tomorrow or in 5 years but camping in that area is not going to be available to our grandkids. I know others disagree but I find that unfortunate.
So what if it was your kid instead of ours? And it could just as easily have been. The lack of sensitivity is fairly astounding. No camping along the Guadalupe vs your kid's life. Wow.
Peter Piper said:dermdoc said:Alta said:
The end result of the lawsuits is there will be no more camps along the Guadalupe River. Might not happen tomorrow or in 5 years but camping in that area is not going to be available to our grandkids. I know others disagree but I find that unfortunate.
So what if it was your kid instead of ours? And it could just as easily have been. The lack of sensitivity is fairly astounding. No camping along the Guadalupe vs your kid's life. Wow.
You've gone off the rails.
Step away from the computer and spend time with your family.
Peter Piper said:dermdoc said:Alta said:
The end result of the lawsuits is there will be no more camps along the Guadalupe River. Might not happen tomorrow or in 5 years but camping in that area is not going to be available to our grandkids. I know others disagree but I find that unfortunate.
So what if it was your kid instead of ours? And it could just as easily have been. The lack of sensitivity is fairly astounding. No camping along the Guadalupe vs your kid's life. Wow.
You've gone off the rails.
Step away from the computer and spend time with your family.
Alta said:
On your final paragraph - I sent my daughter to Mystic. I was very familiar with the risks of flooding as I lost a close family member in a flood (trying to evacuate) as a kid. Still haunts me. I did a lot of research and was comfortable with the location of the cabins. I don't fault (or would expect) parents for not emailing Mystic that night. I certainly never did that in the middle of the night when my daughter was there. If I thought evacuating in the middle of the night was a possibility I wouldn't haven't sent my daughter there for obvious reasons.
austinag1997 said:
I think my issue are the actions to protect equipment (canoes etc.), prior to child safety. If the Eastlands believed water would rise high enough to float those, wouldn't the first order of business be to move the campers to higher ground first?
Canoes are easily replaceable.
I get the weather was crappy. Lightning. But somebody is outside moving equipment.
correct…oldarmy76 said:austinag1997 said:
I think my issue are the actions to protect equipment (canoes etc.), prior to child safety. If the Eastlands believed water would rise high enough to float those, wouldn't the first order of business be to move the campers to higher ground first?
Canoes are easily replaceable.
I get the weather was crappy. Lightning. But somebody is outside moving equipment.
Im guessing the canoes were kept along the river where a routine rainfall and river rise could wash them away. Not where a never seen before by anyone alive river rise would wash them away.
I don't think that is a great argument on caring for equipment more than kids.
oldarmy76 said:austinag1997 said:
I think my issue are the actions to protect equipment (canoes etc.), prior to child safety. If the Eastlands believed water would rise high enough to float those, wouldn't the first order of business be to move the campers to higher ground first?
Canoes are easily replaceable.
I get the weather was crappy. Lightning. But somebody is outside moving equipment.
Im guessing the canoes were kept along the river where a routine rainfall and river rise could wash them away. Not where a never seen before by anyone alive river rise would wash them away.
I don't think that is a great argument on caring for equipment more than kids.