Below is a post I did in 2022. If you search my user name under the travel forum and search for Ocracoke you will see my other posts as well too with some more info. Great that you have a 4x4...be sure to get the pass for them on the beaches ....just google for it and it will allow you to do online. They patrol those areas like a hawk and will ticket you if you don't have it or the proper vehicles. Get the one for Hatteras (which will include Ocracoke). The ferry to Ocracoke is at the southern end of Hatteras.
First, very northern (Corolla area) and Southern (Hatteras area) parts are more isolated and secluded. Our favorite parts. Kitty Hawk/Nags Head/Kill Devil Hills are the more commercial areas with the putt putts and such and in the middle of the OBX. Part of Highway 12 in Corolla is just beach. Down near Hatteras you will drive and the ocean is only about 100 yards from you on each side in parts. Lot's of undeveloped stretches of ocean and beaches.
Quick thoughts on what to do:
-See the wild horses while in Corolla area...couple very good tours that will take you to them. Below is the one we used and was great. Driving all on the beach in that area. Very cool IMO.
https://wildhorsetour.com/?utm_source=icwnet-Get Duck Donuts in Duck (and other areas).
-See the lighthouses....Corrituck, Bodie, Hatteras, Ocracoke-see more below on Ocracoke. Those are from North to South--can do Manteo (Roanoke) one too if you want. That is near the Lost Colony mystery if you are into history as well)
https://www.outerbanks.com/lighthouses.html-Wright museum/monument is a cool stop ...can walk their actual first flight path.
-Jockey's Ridge State Park in Nags Head....a huge dunes area. Can hang glide off of them.
May not be feasible time wise, but a day at Ocracoke Island. Best part of all of the OBX. This is where we only go and stay now. Almost a best kept secret. Have to take a 45 minute free ferry from Hatteras to it (and the lines can be long to get on). Quaint, small, and just it's own little magical island is the best way to put it. One of the top 5 ranked beaches in the US is there---no development and no crowds. Can see the Milky Way at night at the beaches just outside of "town". Also have 4x4 vehicle beaches as well, great restaurants, etc. No chains of anything, all local islander owned. Which is only like 300 people. Most people rent a golf cart or bikes to get around. Home of Blackbeard too, but no nightlife really.
https://www.visitocracokenc.com/I'll post some pics/links later


