lil99chris said:
Got two questions…
Should a kid be pulled for hitting batters? We are playing on Sunday and the opposing pitcher hit 5 of our batters. I'm not talking about a "wear it" kind of hit by pitch. These pitches had quite a bit of speed on them and left two kids with nasty bruises.
My son (13u) is on the short end. He leads off for our team and fully understands the strike zone. Over the past two weekends he has been getting multiple strike calls from the brim of his helmet to well below his knees. It's frustrating to get a strike called and often fall behind in the count. He then has to deal with chasing a bad pitch to stay alive. If these were called strikes on 5' 7" players, there would be an uproar from everyone. Any ideas?
Unless the opposing pitcher hitting your players can reasonably be thought to be doing it on purpose that decision lays with their coaches. If they think they can give up 5+ free passes and still win that's on them. Sounds like the kid might have an arm but isn't much for control and they're trying to teach him how to pitch.
In my oldest son's HS game this past Friday the starter plunked 3 kids in one inning and was left in for another inning before bringing in another arm.
As for your son, umpiring won't be great and it might not be fair but if he's getting a lot of called strikes called on pitches outside the zone then he might actually need to be less patient early in the AB. See something close and attack it. And, if he's getting rung up on these bad calls then he needs to try to foul those pitches off and make the pitcher throw more pitches.
I understand it can be really demoralizing for a kid but you and the coaches have to really work hard to help him understand it's not about him and it's not about the results but it's about his approach and attitude. Did he go up with a plan? Did he attack pitches in the zone? Did he make the pitcher work? If he can say yes to those then it's a good AB.
I loved seeing a clip of an interview with Barry Bonds (I think it was in the Greg Maddux documentary you can find on YouTube) and Barry is talking about even if he lined out to 2nd base he considered an AB a "win" because the pitcher didn't make strike him out, he just barely missed his pitch.