We lived in Pacific Grove 10 years ago. Big Sur is my happy place.
Walk the wharf for free clam chowder samples. I like Old Fisherman's Grotto. Gianni's pizza was down the street from our house and we loved it. Last time we were there was for a wedding, the rehearsal dinner was there. But it's pizza. We liked Petra in PG for Mediterranean. And Red House in PG was always good.
Driving Big Sur. Where does it start? Some say Carmel Highlands, but the Beach Boys sang "have you ever been south of Monterey?"
Probably won't be able to drive all of it. Came from the south a couple of years ago, couldn't go north of Limekiln. South, should be able to make it to Julia Pfieffer Burns, this is the epic waterfall into the sea.

When you get there, or really any state park in Big Sur, don't pay to park. Just park on the highway, but it's a tight fit.

The River Inn is a great stop. You can eat in the restaurant, get food from the shop and picnic by the river, or get ice cream from the bus. Hang out in the grass by the river though behind the inn.

Never explored Point Sur light, but they do tours every so often.

Garrapata is a good beach, lots of hiking.
Pfieffer Beach, not to be confused with Julia Pfieffer Burns, is hidden, but worth going to. No sign, just make the sharp turn at the narrow road sign. Has a cool arch and purple sand.

At the beaches, be careful! Sneaker waves can get you. We were at a beach once and our kids were climbing on a rock. Big waves washes in and strands them 50 yards out. Luckily the rock didn't get completely awashed, but could have been disastrous.
The road closure. Been closed asking few years due to winter storms causing slides. They are putting in some tunnels to prevent it. Don't think it is complete yet. So you'll need to find a way from PCH to 101. In Kings City, you can cut back to PCH via Fort Hunter Liggett.
Why cut back, well the Beach Boys also sang "have you ever been north of Morro Bay?"
This part of Big Sur is home to the elephant seals and zebras.
The elephant seals are at San Simeon state park. Don't know if they have reopened the pier, was damaged when I was last there at new years 2024.
The zebras are owned by the Hearst Corporation. Driving by their land, you'll see cows, zebras, and elk.

Can also tour the Hearst Castle. My then 19 year old daughter loved it.
Pierre's Blanco light also has tours. It is oddly missing its top.
Sand Dollar Beach is my favorite, has a sea cave if the tides are right. And the sign at it still says USSR.

Ragged Point is what most people consider the southern terminus of Big Sur. You'll notice a major shift in the ruggedness of the coast. Check out the portal there.

Last trip found a place that was my new favorite, Arroyo Hondo. South of Ragged Point and on private land, but they allow access.

Morro Bay we ate at La Katrina.
Sequoia, just a bunch of big trees! Only been there once, walked the Grove while heading to Kings Canyon to hike Raes Lake.