Ryan the Temp said:
If she cancels her booking, she doesn't get to review us. For that matter, if she doesn't cancel, but never shows up, she still can't review us as long as we can prove she never showed up.
ETA: We told her to edit her booking down to only one night, let us approve the change, and then cancel so she only takes the non-refundable hit for one night. Her response was to demand a full refund, even though she agreed to our cancelation policy when booking.
ETAA: Our practice is to credit the non-refundable amount toward a future booking.
Good to know. We are just shy of a year doing this (I'm figuring out taxes this week, ugh), and my wife really runs the place. She probably knows that you can't review in that situation but I clearly didn't.
Given that offer you made her, I'd stick to you guns. Tell her to take your very reasonable offer, or leave it, but if she leaves it, she's going to lose out. She can take it up with Air BnB. Although the one negative is that she's still holding up one day on your booking schedule, and we get a lot of last minute bookings. Not sure if you do or not.