When my son was a high school junior, we visited TAMU and the recruiting colonel for the Corps told a room full of kids and their parents that if they wanted to graduate from TAMU, they could. But the path might not be what they think it will be......Turns out he knew what he was talking about.
My son was a private school kid, and got a PSA offer from Texas A&M. He was devastated. Did. a year at Tarleton, and tbh it was the best thing for him. racked that 4.0, came to CSTAT, joined the Corps, and did fantastic. He graduated, found his wife, and is contracted into the the Marine Corps for September in Quantico. .....I would not change a thing.
Tell her to do whatever she has to do get to Aggieland. In the long run, it all evens out.
There may not be time to do the job right, but there is always time to do the job over!!